Too busy to die

A fallen, bigamist soldier is mourned by his three son's and their mothers (his two wives and a girlfriend). Where was Jerry Soringer during all of this?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2141465/Two-wives-meet-time-bigamist-soldier-husbands-funeral--mother-son.html?ITO=1490


Innovate

what happens when widows marry bad men, through choice or force

Some of his wives were only children.  His widows are the first time I've thought of this as a possible positive.  More reasons to hate this evil man.Thanks to the Seals and Obama for getting rid of him.

Yea!

Her husband was broken by war.  He signed up for the military to help protect the country.  It's only fair that his insurance benefits go to help what's left of his family.

The Widow Who Went for It.

I'm not mad at you Mrs. Thang.  LOL! No sense in sitting home alone.

The Widow With the Forever Raw Wounds

The blessing of time (with maybe some bereavement counseling & medication) is that the raw pain of losing our husbands lessens.  Sure, we don't forget them, but we eventually think of them in states of calmness and happiness.  We eventually reach a point where we accept their deaths as maybe good for them in terms of ending unreasonable suffering.  This is not betrayal of our loved ones.  This is healing that they would want for us.  It is necessary for us to be able to parent our children and provide healthy memories of their lost fathers.  Children need to process the deaths of their fathers with the understanding that their fathers loved them, their fathers did not willingly leave them, and that their fathers want them to live healthy & productive lives to ensure that the family continues. According to what I saw on the OWN Channel, our widowed sister, Jill Price, has a special memory.  She is gifted and cursed with a mind that keeps ALL memories fresh (both the happy and the sad).  No distance for her and her pain of loss. I don't know how she does it. 

Wisconsin Stigma Bill

Wisconsin GOP's grothman wants to pass a bill requiring consideration that single-mother households be deemed "abusive and neglectful."  This will penalize widowed, single mothers who have already suffered enough.

Contact him and let him hear about it!

Madison Office Room 10 South State Capitol P.O. Box 7882 Madison, WI 53707-7882	Voting Address 151 University Drive 312 N West Bend, WI 53095
Telephone (608) 266-7513 Or (800) 662-1227	District Telephone (262) 338-8061
Fax (608) 282-3560
Email Sen.Grothman@legis.wisconsin.gov

The heart does go on; you can love your lost husband & next husband just the same

Pat Tilman's poor widow lost her husband as he battled to protect her and our country. A hero is one who sacrifices themselves to help others.  It is horrible that Pat's death was  due to friendly fire.  His love and determination to protect his family and his country in our time of need shows how he was such a wonderful man.  It is good that she has since found an additional love.  As widows, we know that love is simply something that grows every time you share.  Loving new people does not diminish the love that we have for them who came before.  Instead, it indeed adds to our ability and capacity to love.